Being on a dating app (not Tinder) as an older man is fraught with lots of disappointing interactions, but some of what you describe sounds like immature young women who don’t know how to communicate. Young men have their own ways to display their immaturity.

BTW, older women communicate differently, which is probably a generational thing, but they have their own “quirks” that indicate that they have not fully matured. It’s a tough process.