Curiosity is a key trait I look for. I dated a really nice woman who I liked a lot, but she lacked curiosity and the energy that goes along with it. I knew that was a deal breaker.

All of the suggestions you list are spot on. The main theme is to pay attention to whether a person is dwelling on what’s wrong or curious about what’s possible. The energies are unmistakable, and they either repel or compel.