Deficits of character, integrity, empathy and all that are rampant across the genders. And where’s all the wisdom that’s supposed to come with maturity?

I did get the impression that you consider sex to be a reward for “being a good boy”. I’m not into that game. If two people are attracted to each other and are desirous of physical intimacy, there should not be a list of rules or preconditions. I get it though. We men are a bit obsessed with using our equipment, and our associated behaviors can be unwanted and even threatening.