How about we just stop talking about them? There are more articles about narcissists than there probably are actual narcissists. Everyone has their own peculiar brand of f****d up. My suggestion is to do one’s own psychological health work and avoid, as much as possible, those who won’t. Narcissists and other “ me first” people, the “ energy vampires”, feed on the insecurities of others. When we get to our own “why” and untie age old emotional knots, we stop giving these people our energy. Their power diminishes, and we can stop talking about them!