It gets down to, what are you trying to catch? Any fisherman knows that to catch a particular fish you need a specific lure. And then there’s the way I would surf fish. Get some frozen squid, put it on a hook, and cast it out into the sea. The thrill was when something took the bait and the anticipation of what I caught as I reeled it in. More often than not it was, “Oh, that again”, and I would toss it back into the water.

Showing lots of flesh will always catch attention. It catches mine! I find, though, that authentic beauty that shines through from real self confidence is most attractive. Also in short supply.