It took a while reading this to get to the problem. The dude was married. I do not usually respond negatively to people’s efforts to illuminate our human frailties by opening themselves up and sharing their own frailties, but c’mon. There’s no story here. It’s been done a million times, with the same results 999,999 times. (Ok, a billion times) You made choices. They did not work out, nor were they likely to. Learn from it. But we don’t need to hear about it. My 2 cents.