The “irresponsible man-child” is a bit of a stereotype that nonetheless does exist in abundance in real life. And they are likely over represented on dating sites. Just like I have found that the soulmate searching woman who judges each man she meets as to whether they will be The One seems over represented too. Good news, though. Mature, responsible, attractive, got-their-shit-together single men are out there. It’s a bit of a treasure hunt, I suppose. The key is to be on the right path and have the right map. Meaning, like really does attract like.