The universe doesn’t care what happens to us, because it’s got bigger fish to fry. Like supermassive black holes, exploding galaxies, and matter racing away from itself so that in billions of years there will be no universe.

Nonetheless, I agree with you! I don’t know how to explain it, but there is a flow that we can tap into. As I told a client today, opportunities are everywhere, but when we are blinded by our stress mindset we can’t see them. When the bottom falls out of our life, we are pushed into a deep stress response. We can’t imagine how it can get better. But our brain can sustain this intense stress response for only a short time. When it subsides, there can be a moment of tremendous clarity. We not only see possibilities, but we can see the flow. Often it helps to have a supportive, knowledgeable guide, like a therapist or a coach, to help us see what is hiding in plain sight. Or a good friend who gets it.