The worst part about being ghosted is that we then create assumptions that are based on our negative self-perception and stories we have created about ourselves. The truth is that in some cases the other person IS being cowardly, inconsiderate, assholey, etc. But often they have a whole mess of their own crap to deal with that is very real and with which they are just trying to cope ( poorly). Or they don’t know how to communicate effectively. Or something else. Does leave one scratching one’s head, often.