This is because most people are “vibrating” in a stress mindset most of the time, and like the saying goes, misery loves company. Of course, when you ( the collective “You”) raise your vibration, you don’t want to be in the company of misery. But just because you are vibrating at a higher energy level doesn’t mean that you should discount those who are still in their stress mindset. That seems like being self absorbed (staring at the candle), and THAT’S really what they are not liking, because they feel your rejection of the mindset in which they are stuck.

When we are at a higher energetic level we can be empathetic, and we can acknowledge and validate how others are feeling. That’s a powerful way to raise their energetic level, and they will greatly appreciate it.