Yes I can relate. I am CS, plus I take care of my disabled daughter. I find that there are women who like me, but do not like my situation. More than one has asked if I might go back to my wife. (Uh, fuck no). I don’t blame them, though. They have every right to want what they want, and not want what they don’t want. Then I got contacted by a beautiful woman with a big heart who is not afraid of messy situations. Oh my! It reinforces my belief that people show up in your life for a reason and when it is meant to be, if we can just trust that when things look bleak.